Love,
Lula Mae
Love,
Lula Mae



I am exhausted. And tiny. And EXHAUSTED. My poor little body was just so tired of running on no fuel and no nutrients. Even my hair looks stringy and kind of unkempt. See, ladies, this is what happens when you forget to take care of yourself!
Like I said before, at almost every point in my life, I have felt inadequate. When I was in middle school, my boobs weren't big enough. When I was in high school, I had braces. Even when I got my braces off, I had these two teeth (they're called your "eye teeth") that were smaller than the rest of my teeth. It's pretty common, actually. My point is, I was SO embarrassed of them that for YEARS I covered my mouth when I laughed or even smiled. People thought I was just plain rude. It wasn't until I was on my own dental plan that I finally got them fixed and felt comfortable enough to smile consistently without shielding it. It's amazing how much we care about the little things that no one else does. Look at these two photos, and tell me you can see a difference enough to tell me I deserved to cover my smile:
My point exactly. We, as women, spend so much time worrying about how much we weigh or how thin our lips are compared to Shiloh Jolie-Pitt's... that we forget what is the MOST beautifying thing of all: Self-love.
To close this out, I want to let you in on a little secret I recently realized. You know how people say that you "glow" when you're in love? It would seem that is because you have some kind of chemical/hormonal thing in your body that makes you just so happy all of the time. But do you know what I think the reason behind your glow d'amore? YOU. It's because you love YOURSELF, not some guy. Because if you do have a boyfriend, I'm guessing you must be pretty self-confident. Because lets face it, unless you're dating one of those total jerk guys who feeds off of your lack of self-esteem, guys like confident girls. Some Prince Charming didn't come along and magically make you start believing in yourself- he came along (and showed interest in you) because you started believing in yourself. No guy wants to date a girl who is constantly talking about how fat/ugly/flat-chested she is. This is why women rarely marry the guy they date when they're, like, 15. You just don't love yourself enough to let someone else love you too. And for some of us, it takes DECADES to get there. But trust me, it's worth the wait. I have, as I said before, never felt more comfortable in my skin. Sure, some days I will feel like a cow, and some days I spend WAY too long staring at that sneaky little worry line I'm afraid is coming to get me far too soon. But all in all, I love myself. For the first time in a long time. And because of that, I also feel in control of my body for the first time. I don't feel like how I see my body controls my attitude, I feel like my attitude determines how I see my body. And that's pretty freaking cool.
(self)Love,
Lula Mae





You should have HALF of the plate filled with vegetables (or fruit, but really it should be veggies), and a quarter of it meat/protein, the other with a starch. Yes, I know you can see that already, I'm just sayin'. So your main course, per se, of your meal should be that veggie! The problem is that lots of people don't quite know how to cook vegetables that aren't boring and bland. There are lots of awesome things you can make that will light up your plate AND your palate. Another trick, too, is using what is in season. Trust me, it will be a lot fresher and yummier- not to mention more "eco-friendly," if they don't have to ship it from some Lab in Timbuktu. There are a few different basic ways to make vegetables. Number one is steaming.
If you don't know how to do this- it is SO easy and takes almost zero hands on time. All you need is a pot and a strainer of some kind. A few of my favorite things to steam lately are: Asparagus, Bell Peppers (I recently fell in love with Orange ones), Sugar Snap Peas, Carrots, and broccoli. I like to either dust them with a bit of butter, seasoned salt, or some Parmesan cheese for flavor. The best part about this kind of cooking? You can make as much or as little of the vegetables as you need! It's not like with a casserole where you make a ton and feel like the lonely cat lady as you eat it alone. Another great way to make vegetables is to fry them in olive oil, perhaps with a little bit of lemon juice and some Sea Salt and Black Pepper. I just found an cooking article with Asparagus, lemon juice, salt, and lemon rind that Im pumped to whip up. This one sounds dangerous due to the whole "frying in Olive Oil," but as long as you don't cook out all the great antioxidants- you need not fear Olive Oil. The studies on this bad boy are getting better and better and with that Vitamin C from the lemon juice this one sits to be a heavy hitter in the benefit arena. Another option is to bake them in a thick and yummy sauce- but it's a little higher in fat and should be used sparingly. Broccoli in a cheese sauce or Asparagus (clearly one of my favorites) in a peanut butter sauce can be delicious if baked correctly. Want to get an even easier meal? Buy yourself a Spaghetti Squash. It sounds complex but it is one of the EASIEST ways to sneak veggies instead of a starch into your meal. And it's delicious too! The "how to" is usually on a sticker on the squash itself- no research required!
The benefits of vegetables are amazing. chock full of Vitamins and Minerals, don't ignore these little buggers! If you are in a huge rush or (like me) don't have a stove and 30 minutes on your lunch break at work, you can buy microwave steamable veggies. If you're REALLY lucky you have time to get to your BBQ and cook your vegetables on the grill. This can be one of THE most delicious ways to make them. Kabobs are an excellent way to get your fill of the whole shebang. And not that it's closing in on Summertime it's the perfect opportunity to fire it up and invite a few friends over for some good low-fat eats. And now I leave you, hopefully pumped on the greens (and Reds and Yellows), with some pictures of your potential new best friend: awesome (and healthy!) food- totally doable by the solo diner:



